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10 Tips For Improving Your Sex Life
When it comes to relationships most end because the people involved grow apart, Other people whether it be friends or acquaintance's spin crap between the two, Lying, CHEATING and then . . . .theres SEX!!Am i doing this right? What is he/she thinking? Am i better then the last? maybe i need to dress and act a certain way for him/her to make me feel like hes interested?!
Now as women some of us tend to over think things when it comes to gettin down n dirty with our men and most of the time it doesn't help if we have that egotistical lover who thinks he's gods gift when it comes to his women or any women for that fact in the bedroom!!
here are some tips on improving not only communication but skills that may bring you closer without the awkwardness in between!
1. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
Talking with your partner is essential in any type of relationship and i don't just mean "can u change the channel"or "OMG did u see that thing on fb?" improving communication will likely bring you closer overtime maybe even allowing you to become more intimate with each other but keeping in mind you want to balance the sexual fantasies and sex in general talk.
2. WHO DOESN'T LIKE ABIT OF FOREPLAY?!
The best part of foreplay is that you can do it anywhere anytime without the embarrasment of being caught unless your taking photos in public! And the second best thing is the Anticipation of what may come afterwards, sex should be something you cant wait for and with a little bit of the "F" word who knows? waiting may not be an option! whether you start the day with some "Sexting" (Sex texting) or maybe a revealing photo you wish to send to your partner while hes at work any times a good time for foreplay.
3. I HOPE I'M DOING THIS RIGHT!!
Now not everyone enjoys this and some don't know where to begin but after foreplay if being in the presence of your partner "ORAL" sex can either start the urge to want to bang each others brains out or finish a bang! And for some women this can especially get them in the mood! "A FEW TIPS FOR THE MEN"
going down on a women Scientifically name being= giving your women abit of "Cunnilingus" slow, soft moments are for the BETTER! some guys tend to use sharp motions and those aren't so effective when trying to get your lady in the mood. And For The Women as we no whatever you do try and keep your teeth well away from your partners "Magic Stick" and use more tongue and lip action also for both men and women using your hands whether it be stroking motion etc will definitely enhance the experience!.
4. OUT WITH THE OLD IN WITH THE NEW!
The one thing that people tend to do is stick with one or two sex positions and over time it just becomes plain boring! the amount of sex positions out there is amazing, karma sutra anyone?, so theirs never just the few you stick to that will get your rocks off experimenting is the best bit finding what you enjoy and finding ones you want to try they can be both fun and pleasurable at the same time!
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NO I'm not talking about the song usher did although its about the same thing! when that moment comes theres nothing more pleasurable then orgasming together! but that's easier said then done init?! for women its harder and takes abit longer to happen but if a guy is worked up and taking in her warnings that shes about to cum he may be able to hold tight so you can feel it together! and at the end of it all your guaranteed to feel alittle closer & have a great sleep.
6. DRESS FOR SUCCSEX!
Its a proven fact that some people feel that much more confident and maybe even sexy when it comes to what they're wearing! sexy lingerie and silk boxers under work or lay at home all day clothes and the thought of your partner seeing them and the hesitation as to when they might, is enough to make some people feel slightly or maybe even allot in the mood!.
7. SUPRISE SEXXXX!! =O
for some people in order for them to actually have sex they have to kind of how would you say.... Set a date for this to happen? sort of like booking a movie on sky? where is the surprise in that this now just sounds like a chore to me!! Unexpected sex is the best sex! whether you make the first move or they do alittle fondling here or there and abit of teasing if done right may lead to that unexpected sex happening right then and there. and for some having risky sex or fondling in public can be exhilarating enough to make your partner want you right then and there.
8. WHO SAID ADULTS CANT PLAY WITH TOYS?
If its something your into why not take your partner "toy" shopping or go alone and surprise him/her when they get home! some couples enjoy spicing things up alittle whether it be a vibrator some chocolate body paint or some lube to get things going maybe if your into this kind of thing some whips n chains?? don't knock it till you try it i say!
9. EVERYBODY NEEDS QUICKIES!
Sometimes you get that feeling of "i really could do with a quickie right now!" and sometimes mentally and physically its a great release whether this be on a lunch break or when your not occupied with something else and you just feel like you need it its also good when your stressed! and even if either one of the partners doesn't reach that quick orgasm they were hoping for the fact they still got it in and the closeness they felt can sometimes do the same job!.
10. SAME OLD SAME!
Especially for males this can be a big partnership breaker! and as we know guys sometimes tend to get board with the same old girl every time and its the same in some ways for girls! and in the end one or both will stop trying which results in sometimes finding alternatives (cheating, braking upand sometimes even extremes like going to a prostitute EHHK!) if the romance is still there but the sex is less then it was or should be maybe its time to result in something we call role playing or better yet start the sex all over again you cant go wrong!!!! "Foreplay anyone?"
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